Pittsburgh Singles Dating | 8 Signs She Only Wants Attention

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The Pittsburgh singles dating scene is tough to navigate today. But out professional matchmakers are here to help you out. It’s time you figured out of this woman is really into you or if you’re just wasting your time with her.

When a woman is only looking for attention, she knows how to get it, but it’s your job to figure out what her true intentions are. Don’t waste your precious time and energy chasing a woman who’s only looking for attention. No one wants to be kept around just to feed someone’s ego. If you’re questioning her intentions with you, keep an eye for the signs below.

When you’re head over heels for someone, you don’t see reality. Of course, you see them, but their flaws and actions are masked by the love you have for them. It’s not your fault, really. This happens to everyone.

In these cases, it’s easy to get caught up in your feelings and end up chasing her. Now, chasing a woman isn’t really a bad thing, but if she lets you chase her just for attention, then it’s a huge problem. Not only will it get you nowhere, but it also makes you look like a fool.

Today, our professional matchmakers are going to show you the top signs she only wants attention.

  1. You can’t get a date with her.


You may chase her all day long, but you can’t actually get a date with her. Why? Because if she only wants attention from you, she won’t actually spend any time with you. If she agrees to go on a date with you, she’ll suddenly (minutes before you’re heading out the door) come up with an excuse as to why she can’t go.

  1. She’s constantly texting.


If you finally get her to spend time with you, she spends most of it glued to her phone. She makes plans with her friends for later on, gets on Instagram, and takes pictures. The point is, she is always doing something other than talking to you.  She’s basically just hanging out with you to pass the time while you stroke her ego.

  1. She flirts with everyone in the place.


Now, there’s nothing wrong with flirting with people, that’s basically how we gauge if we’re attracted to someone. But she is different. She is constantly flirting with guys, even if they are taken. She gets close to them, kisses them, and even gets their number.

  1. She loves drama.


If there’s something bothering her, it’s the end of the world. If she fought with a friend or had an issue at work, everyone has to hear about it. This, first of all, keeps the world revolving around her. Without drama, her world will never work. She thrives on drama and needs it to live.

  1. She talks to you on social media.


She has no problem talking to you on social media but will never talk to you via messages. Maybe you have her number. It doesn’t matter, she doesn’t reply. If she only replies to you via Instagram or Facebook, there’s problem. It’s easy to ghost people on social media in comparison to texting or phone calls. Plus, it keeps you hooked on watching her pictures on Instagram.

  1. Her friends are the same way.


There’s this quote that says that “You are who you hang out with.” And you know what, this is so true. If all her friends are attention seekers, there’s a high chance that she loves attention too. Now, we don’t want to generalize, so you should definitely check her friends before you make this assumption.

  1. Her excuses are lame.


You asked her out or asked if she’s looking for a relationship, but she can’t really give you a solid answer. In fact, she doesn’t have a logical answer to give you. Truthfully, this is one of those big signs she only wants attention from you. She is clearly keeping you around to make herself feel good for the time-being, and that’s it.

  1. She loves getting compliments.


In fact, she spends a lot of her time fishing for compliments. If she does her makeup or wears something cute, she’s expecting your jaw to drop to the ground. She even makes negative comments about herself, just to get a compliment from you.

So what do you say? How does your new love interest measure up? Is she just using you to feed her own ego?

If you’re tired of meeting the wrong women, it’s time you let our professional matchmakers do the matching. If you’re single and want to meet relationship-minded women in Pittsburgh, contact our professional matchmakers here at Pittsburgh Singles Dating Service today and let us help you find the love of your life. To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today!