Pittsburgh Singles | 3 Signs He’s Never Been in a Relationship

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So you finally met a wonderful guy. Congratulations to you! It’s not easy to find quality guys today. Especially because they all want to use you for sex and that’s it. It is even hard to find a half decent guy who is honest about his intentions.

While the beginning of a new relationship is an incredibly magical and exciting time, there are also a ton of things that can go wrong, and things tend to get confusing fast. You usually forget all that when you’re single and wondering why you can’t get another boyfriend as soon as you want. Then you have the talk with him. The talk about whether or not you’re officially together. It’s the chat about your past relationships. So how do you know you’re actually the first girl he’s ever dated? Sure, he could tell you the truth… but he might not because he is embarrassed.

Today, our Pittsburgh Singles matchmakers are going to show you the signs he’s never been in a relationship before.

  1. He’s very nervous.


He’s got sweaty palms when you’re hanging out together on the sofa watching movies. He’s accidentally kissed your nose more times than either of you want to admit. He’s typed more typos than anyone you know. Yup, your new boyfriend is very nervous when it comes to you, and that proves that you’re the first girlfriend he’s ever had.

That doesn’t mean that he doesn’t know what he’s doing or that things will never be good in your relationship. It just means that this is a whole new territory for him. It’s time for you to be a little more caring and compassionate with him so that he can shake off those nerves.

  1. He’s insecure.


If your new guy honestly seems to think that any fight that you have means that you are going to break up with him, that’s a surefire sign that he’s never had a girlfriend before. If he had some experience in relationships, then he would know that a fight doesn’t mean the end of a relationship. He would never be this insecure.

Sometimes insecurity stems from not having enough life and love experiences. So go easy on him and don’t accuse him of being super annoying or frustrating. If he keeps acting this way, sure you have every right to confront him about it. But just know that if he’s insecure about where things are going, he honestly can’t help this behavior. He just doesn’t know what’s going on because he’s never been in a relationship before.

  1. He’s extremely clingy.


Sure, lots of guys can be very bad and claim that every single woman is crazy clingy. But that’s not true. A lot of women like to have their own life and keep their independence, and that can scare many immature guys that can’t stand it. But guys are people too and they can be super clingy in a relationship.

Sometimes guys can be even more clingy than a woman. If this is happening in your relationship it could be because you are his first girlfriend. He’s probably texting you all day long and it’s a bit too much. He’s probably also suggesting that you see each other literally every day of the week, and he doesn’t understand the concept of needing personal space. This may be rough at the early stages of your relationship, but it can be worked out – as long as you explain to him that you need more personal time.

If you discover that your boyfriend has never been in a relationship before, try to be a little more compassionate and understanding with him as he learns the ropes.

If you’re single and ready to meet relationship-ready men in Pittsburgh, contact our matchmakers here at Pittsburgh Singles Dating Service and let us make the introductions. To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today.