Monroeville Matchmakers | Top 4 Can’t-Miss Dating Red Flags

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If you’re single and dating, you probably can’t believe how much work it takes to find quality men. Whether you’re dating online on through friends and co-workers, you have to spend a lot of time putting yourself out there dating and kissing frogs.

If you’re like many love-seeking Monroeville singles, you probably have a checklist of personality traits, beliefs, and values that you want in a potential boyfriend. Some people think it’s a bad idea to think that way because you can’t control who you fall in love with. But while that’s true, there are things you still have to consider, and those are red flags. No matter how laid back you are, you owe it to yourself to be on the lookout for any red flags on a date. After all, that’s what dates are for – figuring out if you like the other person, if you can see yourself with them, and if they seem like a good fit for your life.

Today, our Pittsburgh matchmakers are going to show you the red flags to watch out for on a date.

  1. Unemployment

 

Sometimes you find yourself without a job and it’s not your fault at all – your boss lets you go because your company is moving to a different state. But if you’re an ambitious woman who cares about her career, which you probably are, then you will do whatever it takes to be sure you have a stable career. If you’re on a date with a guy and he has no job, you need to walk away. You need to find a guy who is a go-getter and has life goals.

  1. Bad Behavior

 

Unfortunately, people aren’t always on their best behavior during first dates, even though that seems like the most obvious thing in the world. If your date is rude to the wait staff, complains that you aren’t what they were expecting, or makes rude comments about other people, you just can’t ignore this. This doesn’t only apply to first dates, of course – maybe someone is putting on a good show for you and it’s only on a second date that you notice this. But if your date is showing bad behavior, you shouldn’t date them anymore.

  1. Negativity

 

The restaurant is too crowded. The food is cold. He wants to order another drink but the last one was gross so he doesn’t know if he should order another one because they obviously don’t know what they’re doing behind the bar. If your date is saying any of these things, he’s clearly a negative person… And who wants to date a negative person? You don’t want to date someone who’s negative and always has something negative to say. Needless to say, this is very draining.

  1. Laziness

 

If your date is pretty lazy when it comes to everything in life – he plays video games all day long, he never bothers to clean the house, he never cooks, and he doesn’t bother to get ready when he goes on a date with you – then he’s definitely not relationship-worthy. You may think that it doesn’t matter and that opposites attract, but if he can’t put any effort into anything in life, he won’t care to put any effort into the relationship with you. Bottomline.

Are you tired of meeting all the wrong people? Are you tired of feeling drained and exhausted from your first dates? If you’re one of the many Monroeville singles looking for real love, contact our professional matchmaker and let us help you find it. Let us do the hard work of dating for you! To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today.