Upscale Matchmakers in Pittsburgh | How to Text a Woman
Women get a lot of text messages from men, so let’s get that out of the way. Don’t make the mistake of thinking you’re the only guy who’s texting her, because you’re not. But you could be if you play your cards right. If you follow these helpful tips from our matchmakers, you’ll stand out from the competition.
She’s getting messages from different men from Facebook, Instagram, and different social media accounts. That’s right, she’s probably declining and deleting messages left and right, so what do you do to stand out?
It’s not as easy as you might think. Here’s the thing: the other 100 guys thought the same thing and look where it got them. If you want to be successful with women, you have to know what you’re doing. As the best professional matchmakers in Pittsburgh, we have a playbook that is just perfect for you. These simple yet effective tips will help you win her over via text in no time.
- Don’t Attack Her
We hear about this one all the time. Instead of starting a meaningful conversation with a woman, the guy simply throws a vulgar comment out there. Listen, she’s a lady, so you need to treat her like one. Don’t bombard her with vulgar comments because they won’t get you anywhere (except maybe on her block list).
- Get the Conversation Flowing
You want to get her involved in conversation just as you would do with any other person. Ask her questions, but don’t make it come off as an interview. Instead, make it an actual conversation between the two of you. Make sure you keep things flowing like a ping pong ball game. In other words, don’t let the ball drop.
- Be Flirty
Yes, you probably have some corny lines hidden up your sleeve, but do not use them, please. No, really, don’t use them. You can be flirty, but you need to gauge her reaction to your comments. If you’re too flirtatious and she’s not feeling it, pull back a little and give her some space.
- Keep Things Positive
You don’t have to sound like a motivational speaker to keep things positive, but you do have to keep things upbeat and lighthearted so she enjoys talking to you. She is like anyone else and is probably going through her own difficulties, so the last thing she wants to do is talk about something negative. If you’re in a bad mood, do not text her. Let a few hours go by before you send her a text.
- There’s a Right Time to Text
If you text her late at night, she’s going to think you’re trying to reach out for a booty call. But that’s not what you want, right? You need to text her at the right time so she replies to you. During the day is the perfect time to send a text. A simple hello and how’s your day going will get the job done.
- Keep Your Eye on the Goal
Your number one goal isn’t to talk through text all day long, right? Uh-uh, no way! Your goal is probably to ask her out, so keep your goal in mind. Guys easily get lost in the whole texting thing and become boring. She probably would’ve gone on a date with you, but you never got the chance to ask her. Instead of spending hours texting, simply ask her out.
- Keep Things Short
This isn’t history class, so keep the text messages short. Honestly, she doesn’t want to have a long drawn out conversation via text. Tell her something funny you saw today or something interesting that you read. Get her involved in the conversation, but don’t keep it going for too long. Texting is all about keeping things short and to the point.
- Texting Isn’t to Show Who You Are
If you want to show her who you are, do it in person, not via text. Remember that your main goal is to ask her out on a date. There’s no need to show her how funny you are by telling her jokes left and right. Texting is just a tool to get you a date with her, which is where you can show her who you really are and let your true personality come out.
Now that you know what you should and shouldn’t do when it comes to texting, are you going to apply these tips to your next conversation with her? We hope you succeed in landing a date with your new love interest.
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