Pittsburgh Matchmakers | 3 Tips to Rock Your First Introduction

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Going on a first date can feel like walking on eggshells. You’re trying to impress your date without coming on too strong – or worse, looking like you are the desperate type.

As a result, a lot of women wind up making mistakes that cause them to miss out on a second date.

Don’t worry, our Pittsburgh matchmakers are going to help you out with some awesome first date tips that will ensure you land a second one.

Top 3 Tips to Rock Your First Date

If our matchmakers here at Pittsburgh Singles Dating Service have arranged an introduction for you, follow our first date tips. Our expert tips will ensure you absolutely rock your first date.

  1. Have some conversation starters.

A conversation can flux and sway throughout the entire first date, and for those who are introverts, this can be extremely stressful. You should have a few conversation starters ready to go in case that ever happens to you. You should have some thought out questions that will keep the conversation going during your date.

It could be about a local sports team, your favorite restaurant in town, or maybe something about pets. This task can seem impossible prior to a date. But if you come prepared, the conversation will continue to flow and you will have a great first date.

  1. How would you guys will be getting there?

It should be planned ahead of time how you both plan on arriving at the venue. You could ride together if you live close or you both can meet there. If you plan on driving yourself, even if they are coming separately, you should make sure your car is 100 percent clean. You also want to ensure it smells fresh.

You might be the sloppiest person on the planet with fast food bags and receipts all over the floor. But to make a good first impression, the car should be cleaned. It is probably unlikely he will ever enter your car. But if he happens to come close enough to your car at the end of the date, you don’t want him to see that is a mess inside. Imagine you open your door and the smell of fast food comes wafting out. Yikes, that’s not going to make a good impression on anyone.

  1. Remember to relax.

The most important advice is to remember to relax and have a good time. The person you’re meeting might not be familiar with you, but you decided to go out with them for a reason. Chances are that they are just feeling as nervous as you, and the more relaxed you are, the more enjoyable the date will be.

The goal is to create the perfect environment where both of you feel safe and are able to open up and get to know each other better. A good tip is to remind yourself to have fun, let loose, and know that whatever happens was meant to happen. If you hit it off, great. If not, no biggie. There will be plenty of dates in your future.

And if you’re working with our Pittsburgh matchmakers, we’ll gather important post-date feedback from each of you to see how things went. We want to know how we can improve your next introduction if this one did not work out. This post-date feedback will also help you learn how you can improve on your next date. We’re not saying you did anything wrong, but perhaps your date tells us that you were late, fidgety, nervous, or perhaps came on very strong. These are all things you would never know from dating on your own. This also gives you the chance to let us know your thoughts about your date. This helps us ensure your next date is better – until we get closer and closer to finding your perfect match.

Single and looking for a date? Contact our Pittsburgh matchmakers today and let us help. We can introduce you to relationship-minded singles in Pittsburgh who are fit and ready to be in a committed relationship. Let us do the hard work of dating for you. Allow yourself to enjoy meeting quality dates with whom you share long-term compatibility.

To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today!