Mature Women in Pittsburgh | How to Show Him You Like Him

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Mature women in Pittsburgh face many dating dilemmas. As professional matchmakers with over 30 years in the Pittsburgh dating industry, it’s our job to help them overcome these obstacles.

Some guys get freaked out too easily. If you come on too strong, you could actually push him away. Because we’re living in the era of the dating apocalypse, playing it cool is the best way to keep him around.

5 Ways to Show Him You Like Him

Are you into a guy but worried about coming on too strong? Today, our Pittsburgh matchmakers are going to show you the best ways to show him that you like him without coming on as too intense.

  1. Chill out with your text messages.

As much as you might want to text him all day (and tell him that you’re head over heels for him and are counting down the minutes until you see him), hold up.

First of all, do not, under any circumstance, bombard him with text messages. Don’t text him multiple times a day, especially during the early stages of the relationship. Instead of getting all mushy about things, when you do text, simply ask him about how his day. It shows you’re interested but without coming off too strong.

  1. Make time for him but don’t be too available.

If you’ve just started dating each other, then you’re in what’s known as the infatuation stage of a relationship. This stage is literally like being on drugs. It’s a time when you just can’t get enough of them. Nevertheless, you need hit the brakes on this situation. Sure, you can spend time with him and get to know each other better, but you just can’t go overboard. Never throw yourself all in headfirst and forget about every other aspect of your life. This would be making yourself far too available, which will make you look desperate.

  1. Let him go out with his friend and you do the same.

If you want to scare the life out of him, complain when he goes out with his friends. If you want to be normal and keep him around, realize that you’re not the only one in his life and his friends are a priority to him. He can still hang out with his friend without you getting mad and you should do the same. Guys come and go but your friends are the ones who stick around for the long haul.

  1. Do the little things

There’s a huge difference between making him dinner and buying some over-the-top gift that he’s been eyeing up for months. Sure, the gift can be great, but it’s also too much and can throw your relationship off balance. Just think about the obligation he has when it comes time to get you something. As opposed to dropping a lot of money on a gift, make him his favorite dish or plan a movie night for the two of you. The little things mean a lot. Even just knowing how he likes his coffee and showing up with it for your next date is sweet.

  1. Let go of the expectations.

The worst thing you can do is have expectations in a relationship, especially unrealistic ones. Once you take the expectations off the table, you’re both going to have a better relationship. Even if you don’t express those expectations out loud, as long as you have them, you’re going to be weighed down by them. Just go with the flow and don’t worry about complicating things with unrealistic expectations.

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